Friday, February 28, 2014

On Black History Month and the Possibility of YOU

Happy Friday! We survived another week.

As I've mentioned on the blog before, I love Black History Month. This week, I had the opportunity to visit a local high school and be the keynote speaker for their Black History Month assembly. Last weekend, I didn't have a clue about what I wanted to say to them, but during a quick visit home to Houston last week, my father used the text Isaiah 43:18-19 for his sermon, and I was inspired. It reads:
18"Do not call to mind the former things, Or ponder things of the past. 19"Behold, I will do something new, Now it will spring forth; Will you not be aware of it? I will even make a roadway in the wilderness, Rivers in the desert.
After reflecting on the idea of "a new thing," I knew I'd talk to them about how Black History Month is an opportunity reflect on the past in order to shape the future.

I only had one other challenge: How was I to present my keynote address to a room of non-Black children (Seriously, in a room of about 150, I could count the number of Black students on my hands.) and make it meaningful and relevant to them. My husband helped me along the way, making suggestions and helping me to pull back a bit when I got a little "Fight the Power!" So what you are about to read (and see - I used a few slides) is my attempt to give a 21st century Black History Month speech to a diverse room of non-Black students. 

Enjoy! Happy Black History Month! 

Until next time . . . I'll be over here jamming to an oldie but goodie, Black Butterfly by Deniece Williams. 


Black History Month and the Possibility of YOU 

What comes to mind when you think of “Black History Month?”
(I posed the question and received responses like "Rosa Parks, "Harriet Tubman and the Underground Railroad," and "Martin Luther King")
  • Maybe the history of Africans coming to America via the system of slavery?

  • Perhaps the Civil Rights Movement?

And of course, if you think about the Civil Rights Movement, you think about leaders such as Martin Luther King, Jr.

Or Rosa Parks who by making the decision to not give up her bus seat sparked the Montgomery Bus Boycott and brought change to the segregated south. 

Maybe you think of famous inventors such as
  • Garrett Morgan, inventor of numerous inventions, including the stoplight 

  • Madame CJ Walker, the first Black woman millionaire who built her fortune in the hair care industry through the development of hair care products for Black women; or
  • George Washington Carver, a scientist whose study of the peanut led to numerous useful inventions. 

These contributions to our great nation are deserving of celebration, but today I'd like to challenge us all not just to use Black History Month as a time to honor those who have come before us. I want to challenge us to use this month as a time to reflect and celebrate the possibility of you and your future. 

Before I get into my talk, I’d like to start with a question that I've heard almost every time Black History Month is mentioned - “Why is it important to celebrate BHM? I’m sure it is floating through the minds of some of you in this room. 

While understanding history helps us to move forward and make a better future, there are other reasons to celebrate Black History Month that go beyond reciting facts, writing book reports, and remembering important dates. 

First, Black Americans have a unique history and relationship with the United States.
  • The way that Black people came to America is different from any other immigrant group (Sidenote: This is one of those places where my husband pulled me back.  This is a much simpler and "pleasant" version than what I had originally written)
  • Black history is an American story of resilience, a story about overcoming obstacles and succeeding. 

    • Out of an ugly history of slavery, Black people have exceled and made incredible contributions in the arts, medicine, government, and so many other arenas. 
African Americans provided a blueprint for other groups to fight for Civil Rights; the strategies of African-American peaceful resistance, such as marching, boycotting, and staging sitting-ins are still present in many modern day Civil Rights movements.

Further, the story of African Americans is not just about resiliency, but it is also a story of alliances and solidarity across racial and ethnic lines.

Black and Asian Americans have a very special relationship that was forged over Civil Rights. 
  • The term “Asian American” was coined during the time of black protest and the Black Power movement. In 1968, a group of Asian American students at U.C. Berkeley, who had joined a protest in support of Black Panther Huey Newton, created their own banner that read “Asian Americans for Justice.”
  • In February of 1942, internationally acclaimed African-American scholar and entertainer Paul Robeson appeared before the California Legislative Committee on Defense Migration as part of a panel of non-Asians, who testified to the loyalty of Japanese Americans in an attempt to avert their eventual imprisonment in internment camps during World War II.
  • Asian Americans in the black Civil Rights movement, including Grace Lee Boggs, Chinese American feminist, scholar, and Civil Rights advocate
 Black and Latino Americans also share a special bond.
  • During the 19th Century, one of the driving reasons for the Mexican War was the refusal of Mexico to return Black people, well over 10,000 who had escaped slavery via the southern-route of the "underground railroad," crossing the border to a free Mexico (point out the map).
Map of the Underground Railroad that included paths to freedom in Mexico. 
  • During the 1960s & 70s Latino students use the strategies similar to those of the Black Civil Rights movements to build their own movement for educational equity and to push for universities in the South and Southwest to offer courses in Mexican and Mexican-American Studies. 

The History of Black and White Americans is one that has been fueled with tension, but there is also a long history of collaboration and solidarity.
  • White abolitionists worked alongside African Americans toward ending slavery and helping those who were enslaved escape to freedom. 
  • Post-slavery, African Americans began setting up informal schools to educate their young. Many White Americans worked with them to create schools and colleges that were dedicated to improving the conditions of African Americans, many of which still stand today, like Howard University in Washington, DC. 
  • During the Civil Rights Movement, many White Americans worked to support African Americans as they sought equal rights. There are numerous stories of White freedom riders who made trips from the North and lost their lives supporting the Civil Rights movement. 
(Sidenote: I treaded lightly here.  I wanted to be sure that I highlighted the agency of Black people and emphasized collaboration, not the false notion of Black people being saved.)

Given these special bonds among racial and ethnic communities, it is evident that Black History Month is not just to be celebrated by Black people. Black history is American history. It is a legacy that belongs to EVERY American. We are a culture that is multiethnic, multilingual, & multiracial. We differ by gender and sexual orientation. While, at the core, we know that we are all human and that we all want and need the same things, to ignore the beauty of our differences would be inexcusable. To ignore the unique flair and flavor that different cultures have contributed to our diverse nation would be detrimental to what makes us American.

So maybe the way that we celebrate Black History Month needs a bit of a shift. It seems like we’re always reflecting on things that happened “back then.” But what about RIGHT NOW?

You all are our RIGHT NOW.

There are young African Americans making incredible contributions to society. Often, young Black people are characterized by negative stereotypes, labeled with words in the mainstream like “ghetto” or “ratchet.” These terms are overused, and the actions of few are often used to stereotype many. There are numerous young Black people making strides for a better future. Many of them are from or serve communities that we often characterize with these thoughtless “ghetto” and “ratchet” labels. I’d like to share a few young people, all under the age of 30, who are defying stereotypes and making our world a better place.
Mayor Aja Brown is the youngest person ever to be elected Mayor of Compton, CA. While 31 years old may not sound young to you now, just keep on living. She is breathing new life into a city that has a troubled past, but a bright future.

This is Phillip Agnew and the Dream Defenders. Agnew, an alum of my alma mater, Florida A&M University, and his multiethnic, multilingual group of young activists, most of whom are in college or younger, have recently been seen in the news taking their stand against modern-day Civil Rights issues.

Tony Hansberry II is a high schooler from Jacksonville, FL who has developed a way of sewing up patients after major surgery that stands to reduce the risk of complications and simplify the tricky procedure for less-seasoned surgeons. Oh, and he's 14 years old. (Sidenote: I said: "He is a real-life Dougie Howser, M.D." The room: **Crickets** I told them I was telling my age, and they laughed. I bet most of them don't know who Dougie Howser is.)

Keep in mind, young people have always been a part of great change in our country. The high school students of the Little Rock Nine in Arkansas moved the country to rethink segregated schooling. College students, not much older than you, made the brave choice to stage sit-ins at a Woolworth’s lunch counter in Greensboro, NC to push for equal treatment in public establishments. Though attacked, spit on, and antagonized by customers who wanted them to sit at the back of the restaurant, these students stood their ground and brought national attention to their cause.

Little Rock Nine
Lunch counter sit-ins in Greensboro

So what’s the difference between these young people and you? Nothing. They are and were everyday people who do extraordinary things. This makes me excited and hopeful because it means that we all have the capacity to be great. We all have the ability to leave our footprint on the world.

You and your greatness will create our history. Everyday that you wake up, you have the possibility to create change. Small, local change can have ripple effects.

For instance, Ameenah Matthews is a member of the Interrupters, a group of community activists, who use their former involvement in gang activity to reach out to young people in Chicago communities that are plagued by violence. We often hear of the despair of these communities, but rarely hear of the everyday heroes who put their greatness to work to improve the lives of others. Ameena Matthews’s small, local change has had a ripple effect that has gained national attention and notoriety. 

I've told y'all how I feel about Ameenah Matthews. 
So if you only take one big idea with you today, remember this: Black History Month is not all about old-time black and white pictures and what happened “back then.” While we honor our American forefathers and foremothers for their indelible marks on American History, I believe this month should be a celebration of you and your possibility to create a better, diverse, equitable, and inclusive world.  I emphasize the word possibility because it is up to you to tap into your gifts and use them.

I almost brought a mirror today to hold it up to you all because I am looking at a room full of history makers. I've been showing slides of other people, but you are just as much a part of this presentation as they are. I'm excited about the power and potential that you all have to make great change.

So as I close, I ask you to search your hearts and minds and think about the following:

How will you change the course of the future?

How will you work to fight against inequality?

How will you help to build bridges across racial and cultural divides?

How will you add to the legacy of outstanding African Americans who have paved the way for your success?

Thank you for your time. I am humbled, and it has been an absolute pleasure to speak to you today, and I look forward to learning how you channeled your possibility to shape our world.

Saturday, February 15, 2014

On Being Respectable (or Not)

Happy Saturday!  I posted this post the other day and then took it down.  However, last night, my hubby and I started watching footage of the late prolific scholar Dr. Amos Wilson, and I decided to repost.  In the profound words of Mystical, “Here I go!” As a matter of fact, let it bump it loudly (in memory of Jordan Davis) as you read the post. This is so unrespectable.  

I'm probably what society would consider a "good" Black person.

I've gone to college and beyond.

I've never had any legal problems.

I know how to speak the King's English (when I feel like it).

My husband and I are both well-educated and employed with solid, respectable career paths.

Since sharing the news about our baby, I've been told, "I'm so glad you all did it the right way.”  Ugh.  The girl-with-the-super-religious-upbringing in me gets what they’re trying to say, but they can keep their judgment to themselves.  I have some wonderful friends and family who built their families differently from me, and it doesn't make their family any worse or mine any better.

I meet most of the criteria to pass the respectability politics test, at least when I'm in public.  Yet, I'm over respectability politics.  What is respectability politics you ask?  Well, in short, it is the idea that if Black people conform to a certain way of being, we'll improve our conditions and have larger society deem us as “worthy.”  Got some new for ya: IT WON'T!!!  This article sums up my argument nicely.  She's a beautiful writer.  In this age of twerking scandals, cultural appropriation, and racially-coded language guised as political policy, I could write an entire diatribe about this topic (After re-reading this, I think I have).

Recently, I’ve witnessed respectability policing all over the internet - from bashing Black women about their TV watching choices, to asking why "we" allowed ourselves to be enslaved (I had to sit on my hands when I read this), to being upset with President Obama for launching a new initiative for Black boys; and I quote, "The damn government is trying to assist because of our failures."

I get the sentiments behind the statements, and, in some cases, I even believe some of these rants have some merit.  Miss me with the slavery one, though, mmkay?  Could some members of our community rethink some of their parenting practices?  Sure.  Can and should Black people do their own community building and economic development?  Absolutely.  I’m all for self-determination.  My major issue is this: We cannot do these things in the hopes that dominant culture will find us worthy and acceptable.  Further, we cannot act like the issues that face Black people are solely of our own doing.  We don't live in a vacuum, and to ignore structural and institutional injustice is simpleminded.  I think we can control our own destinies and hold society's oppressive “feet” to the fire.

When the George Zimmerman case seized the summer, I wrote a piece that defended Rachel Jeantel and challenged those who made fun of her looks, diction, and demeanor.  I stepped on some toes because I received emails/inboxes and responses to the post that were to the tune of "But how can we expect them (i.e., White people) to respect us when we present ourselves like Rachel?"  My retort: "What does her diction or appearance have to do with her deserving respect as a human being?!?" 

I haven't written anything of this nature in a while, and since I haven't been here in a minute, I'll end my post by sounding off about a few of the respectability-politics-laden occurrences that get under my skin.  I'm sure some of these won't be popular.
  • People who came to Richard Sherman's defense using the argument that he went to Stanford as a reason to not castigate him -  It shouldn't matter where he went to school, and further, this situation just goes to show that doing the "right" thing doesn't give one a respectability pass.  It shouldn't matter if he barely passed community college and spoke in completely broken English; he didn't deserve the harsh, racially-charged unwarranted criticism that framed his being in the moment as being a thug. I’m also glad he didn’t buy into the BS and rightfully called out his naysayers for their racially-coded language.
  • HBCU dress codes -  Now if you read my posts, you know that I love my alma mater FAMU, but dang, HBCUs!!! Get progressive!  College is a time for exploration and discovery of self.  Making students cut their locs to be "professional" or forcing male students who prefer to wear women's clothing to change their dress is unfair and stifling.  Because I attended a Black college, I know that these kinds of rules come from a place of concern about students' professional trajectories (and a deep-rooted adherence to respectability politics), but I think many of them have failed to realize that "success" doesn't always come clothed in a business suit with straight hair.  I also understand the "look the part" argument, but I think a first step is to make sure that students even want the part we're trying to force down their throats.
  • Stupid memes about Black women - "We used to be queens (insert some picture of "dignified" Black women) now we're here (insert the cast of a reality TV show either fighting or twerking.)  Again, SIMPLEMINDED.  This stupid sh@t gets posted by people who know better, people who are in constant contact with successful Black women, people who ARE positive Black women.  Newsflash: We can be dignified AND reserve the right to twerk when the situation presents itself.  These things aren't always mutually exclusive.  It's complicated.  This really deserves a separate post. More on this on another day. 
Whew!  Simply, to summarize: Respectability politics is for the birds.  Yuck.

I think I've got my blogging mojo back.  Now let me go see if I can harness this writing energy into something productive for work. 

Until next time . . . Love yourselves. 

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Oh Baby!

Happy Tuesday! Remember me?

So remember when I told y'all about graduation and the wonderful brunch that my hubby and family hosted? Well, there was one little detail that I failed to mention.

My hubby and I made a big announcement to our family and friends.


Yup, I'm pregnant! It almost feels surreal to write it.  It still feels surreal when I tell people.  I finally have a little bump as evidence.  I'm almost 4 months (15 weeks!), and it feels so good to be able to tell the world.  I had a rough patch.  I caught the flu around week 12 and had a long, hard recovery, but I'm here, my Little Bean is doing well, and God is good. 

I have so many things that have been floating around in my head since we got the good news, so I hope to carve out some time to tell y'all all about them. 

Until next time . . . I'll be over here rubbing my belly and taking another nap.